Can't Manipulate God!

“Although Balak were to give me his house full of silver and gold, I could not go beyond the command of the Lord my God, to do less or more."
Numbers 21:18

You Can't Manipulate God!
By Rev. William Dohle

Isn't it frustrating when you don't get what you want?

Frustrating doesn't describe what my 3 year old feels whenever we say "no" to him. He really doesn't like it. Tell him he can't have more cereal(after his 5th bowl) or tell him he can't take the toy in the van or tell him anything that involves NOT being able to do something he wants to do, and my boy isn't a happy camper. In fact he's got a baby temper like you wouldn't believe.

He doesn't like hearing "no!"

And honestly I can't say I blame him. I like getting what I want too. It's probably pretty human of us. When we get what we want, what we think we deserve, we rejoice. When we get more than we deserve, we're even happier. But when we get something we don't want, than we, like my son, are pretty unhappy campers.

In life...and in prayer!

No one shows this best than King Balak. The story of Balak and Balaam takes up two whole chapters in the book of Numbers. It's huge. And its like no other story told so far in scripture. The Israelites aren't the central characters in the story. It's this crazy king and his dumb prophet. And its the story of what happens when God desires something we don't really want.

In this case, Balak desires the people of Israel to be cursed. Balak wants Balaam, the prophet of God in their area, to call down curses upon Israel and stop them from entering and conquering the Promised Land.

Just one little problem with that. God doesn't want to do it. Not only is God unwilling to call down curses upon them, God is bent on blessing them instead. Israel carries with it Abraham's promise. "I will bless those who bless you and whomever curses you I will curse and all nations of the earth will be blessed because of you."

God won't be manipulated. God wishes to bless Israel, not curse them. So God says: "No!"

Of course Balak doesn't like that answer and so he gets Balaam to try again and again and again. Three times Balaam tries to curse Israel and each time the blessings get larger and larger for them. Finally, Balak says to stop talking! Stop blessing my enemies!

We, like King Balak, would like to think we can manipulate God. We'd like to think that the American myth, that those who work hardest will prosper and excel, stands. We'd like think that God will reward those who work the hardest and punish the lazy, but that's not the case. God doesn't do what we want him to do. God can't be manipulated!

No matter how many authors claim he can. No matter how many secrets they share of how God will reward you if you just pray this prayer, think this thought, do this thing, contribute to this fund, God will not be manipulated! He wasn't manipulated by King Balak! God's blessings spoken to Abraham stood about this people moving into the Promised Land stood, no matter how many sacrifices Balaam made to counter them.

Maybe we should stop a moment and listen to our own prayers. Are we trying to manipulate God? Are we assuming we know God's mind and who God blesses? Are we calling down curses ourselves on people we think are lazy or good for nothing? Are we trying to be good to win God's approval?

If we are... stop! There's no use in it! Let us stop trying to manipulate God and instead just bask in the glory of his love and in the beauty of his presence.

Holy God, we are guilty, every one of us, of thinking we can buy you out or win your approval over and against someone else. We fail to see that you are above us and beyond us and yet love us all the same. Amen.